The community of Hobbs, New Mexico, is mourning after a devastating tragedy that claimed the lives of Megan Bates, originally from Dallas, Texas, and her husband, Antwain Bates, in what authorities have described as a murder-suicide. The shocking loss has left family members, friends, and neighbors struggling to comprehend the events and grieving two lives cut short by senseless violence.
The heartbreaking news has sent waves of sorrow through multiple communities, with loved ones remembering both Megan and Antwain while grappling with the pain and unanswered questions surrounding their deaths.
Antwain Bates’ daughter, Senaya Bates, shared an emotional and deeply personal tribute honoring her father and the bond they shared. In her message, she described him as her best friend, her inspiration, and her hero—someone who shaped her values, supported her dreams, and left an irreplaceable mark on her life. She reflected on cherished memories, from laughter and long conversations to the lessons he taught her through sports, love, and guidance. Senaya expressed the profound heartbreak of losing her father, the future moments they will never share, and her commitment to carrying his name and legacy forward.
Her words captured the depth of a daughter’s grief, the love she still holds, and the lasting impact her father had on her life.
Antwain’s cousin, Toysha Bates Solomon, also paid tribute, announcing his passing with great sorrow. She remembered him as more than a cousin—describing him as a brother and a dear friend whose presence brought light and meaning to those around him. She spoke of his legacy living on through the memories he leaves behind and shared a prayer asking for protection, strength, and comfort for the family during this painful time. She noted that details regarding a celebration of life would be shared when available.
This tragedy has left families on both sides facing unimaginable loss. As Hobbs mourns, many are calling for compassion, reflection, and support for those affected. The incident is also a sobering reminder of the far-reaching consequences of violence and the importance of mental health awareness, intervention, and community care.
As friends and loved ones grieve, thoughts and prayers continue to be extended to the families of Megan Bates and Antwain Bates. May those left behind find strength in shared memories, comfort in community support, and peace as they navigate the difficult days ahead.
Antwain and Megan Bates obituary and funeral plans will be made available by their families at a later date.